men and women of california

i've come to the conclusion why there is such a hard way for
nice men and women to meet in california.
it is because men and women of california arent your standard
"norm" of men and women. Though they are called men and women,
there is a clear distinction about who they really are.
(either one or some of the points)

MEN of CALIFORNIA -
are a bit more shy than your average person
are a bit more gay-friendly/oriented in a fashion that they do bro-mance
are metro sexual
are more in touch with their feelings then women
are lost in their career/decision with life
are ungrounded in life

WOMEN of CALIFORNIA -
are more independent
are unlikely to attach themselves to someone
are more in touch with pride then some men
are close minded to other ppl, ie: more selfish
are unwilling to lay down her life/comfort for someone else

im not saying that ppl that do have "good traits" aren't in california,
but, im saying by these criterias, these are the problems that we're facing,
and by all means, me included.

MEN need to be MEN in california..
and
WOMEN need to act more like WOMEN in california..

for "[....] male and female, He created them" Genesis 1:27